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A President’s Secret: The Enduring Love of FDR and Lucy Mercer

 

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 today’s story unfolds a captivating and often concealed tale from the corridors of American History revealing the profound and enduring love between Franklin Delano Roosevelt and Lucy Mercer the woman who was arguably the only true love of his life their clandestine romance is a testament to a bond that defied conventions and the scrutiny of a  Nation Lucy Mercer Rutherford SP the night of April 11th 1945 restless with worry about Franklin Delano Roosevelt the 32nd president of the United States at the little white

house in Warm Springs Georgia their relationship described by Lucy as inexorably drawn to each other began in 1914 Roosevelt’s wife Elena hired Lucy to assist with social duties in Washington their Affair discovered by Elena in 1918 led to a proposed divorce but but was thwarted by Roosevelt’s mother Sara Deano Rosevelt sitting financial and political repercussions the affair ended but their connection persisted in 1945 having been widowed the previous Year Lucy was acutely aware of Roosevelt’s frail Health the

president afflicted by poliomyelitis found solace and therapy in Warm Springs a place he had frequented since 1924 The Little White House completed in 1932 served as his Retreat from presidential pressures Roosevelt returned to Warm Springs on March 30th 1945 for rest accompanied by Dr Howard bruan and other Close Associates his deteriorating Health was evident and Dr bruan imposed strict rest protocols Lucy’s presence was arranged by Roosevelt’s daughter Anna unbeknownst to Elena Roosevelt and Lucy Had maintained contact and their

last meeting was facilitated by Anna while Elena was away Luci arrived on April 9th 1945 with artist Elizabeth schum commissioned to paint a portrait of Roosevelt the president’s Health showed slight Improvement during this time with activities including presidential duties in the mornings and Leisure in the afternoons Lucy’s presence was a source of comfort for Roosevelt who valued her listening skills and companionship on April 12th schum began her portrait session with Roosevelt capturing him in his cape symbolizing his involvement in the

upcoming United Nations Charter during this session Roosevelt collapsed despite immediate medical attention he passed away leaving a profound impact on those present including Lucy and shumov the aftermath saw Lucy and shumov hastily leaving Warm Springs to avoid the arriving family shumat later pursued by the Press held a conference but respected Lucy’s wish to remain unmentioned Lucy ensuring privacy destroyed all correspondents from Rose Roosevelt their relationship a significant but discreet part of Roosevelt’s life remained relatively

hidden from public scrutiny during Lucy’s lifetime Lucy Mercer and Franklin Roosevelt both Born Into the affluence of the late 19th century shared a Heritage deeply rooted in American history Lucy’s lineage traced back to the Catholic Mercers who were part of the founding of Maryland in the 1630s Franklin Roosevelt on the other hand descended from clay martensen van rosenvelt a successful New York Merchant and from Sara Delano whose lineage boasted connections to William the Conqueror and leaders in the Massachusetts Bay Colony the Mercers

contributed to the establishment of Mercersburg Maryland and boasted figures like Charles Carroll a signatory of the Declaration of Independence the Roosevelts having anglicized their name by the American Revolution gained wealth as sugar refiners and held significant roles in early American politics Franklin was born into the Hudson River Valley’s Elite with his father purchasing the Springwood estate in Hyde Park this area attracting the wealthy like the Vanderbilts epitomized the Gilded AG’s opulence Lucy’s maternal

family the tunic’s also held prominence her mother Minnie a noted Beauty in her youth experienced both the highs of wealth and the lows of financial distress having spent her inherited fortune and endured a divorce Carol Mercer Lucy’s father led a life marked by military service suspension for misconduct and financial struggles Lucy’s path eventually led her to Washington DC where her background and social skills made her an ideal candidate for a social secretary a role that brought her into the lives of Ellena and Franklin Roosevelt in 1913

President Woodrow Wilson appointed Franklin Roosevelt as the assistant Secretary of the Navy a significant step in Roosevelt’s political career and a position once held by his relative Theodore Roosevelt this appointment required Franklin and his wife Ellena along with their children to move from Albany to Washington D.

C by this time the Roosevelts had been married for 8 years and had three children with a fourth child Franklin Jr who had passed away in infancy ell soon found herself overwhelmed by the demands of Washington Society necessitated by Franklin’s new role her responsibilities included mingling with influential figures and managing a complex schedule of social engagements which eventually led her to hire a social secretary Lucy Mercer in 1914 Lucy Mercer known for her striking Beauty and charm was 23 years old when she started working for Elanor standing

5′ 9 in in tall with brown hair and blue eyes she was described as a lady to her fingertips and immediately caught the attention of Franklin Roosevelt their interactions began with polite exchanges as Roosevelt would leave for work and Lucy’s role gradually expanded to include attending social functions and occasionally acting as Hostess the relationship between Franklin and Lucy evolved from professional to personal marked by a mutual fondness and admiration Elliot Roosevelt Franklin’s son observed that Lucy shared a similar

charm to his father which endeared her to many including Franklin’s mother Sara Delano Roosevelt during this period Elanor was pregnant with their last child John and following his birth in 1916 the Roosevelt’s marital Dynamic changed Elena exhausted from frequent pregnancies and the demands of motherhood distanced herself from Franklin leading to a separation within the marriage the developing relationship between Franklin and Lucy filled with excitement and emotional connection contrasted sharply with the Roosevelt’s

increasingly strained marriage while the exact timeline and nature of Franklin and Lucy’s Affair remain unclear it was evident that Lucy held a special place in Franklin’s life as noted by those close to them as World War I engulfed Europe and the United States entered the conflict in 1917 the daily lives of Americans underwent a profound transform This Global shift also impacted the personal dynamics of Lucy Mercer and Franklin and Ellena Roosevelt the war brought a reduction in the usual social obligations of Washington Society Lucy’s

role in the Roosevelt household shifted from handling ellena’s correspondence to more war rated activities such as knitting for soldiers and working at the Red Cross canteen elanar deeply involved in war efforts found a new sense of purpose in these activities Franklin’s responsibilities at the Navy Department increased significantly due to the war often keeping him in Washington while his family escaped the summer heat during this period Ellena began to suspect more than a professional relationship between Franklin and Lucy her letters to

Franklin hinted at her awareness of their closeness and her reluctance to leave him in Washington with Lucy became more pronounced Elena’s growing suspicions led to her discontinuing Lucy’s employment in the summer of 1917 however Lucy enlisted as a female yman in the Navy Department ensuring she and Franklin continued to see each other daily the tension between Franklin and Elanor escalated with elanar demanding Franklin join her at Campobello and expressing her frustration at feeling ignored despite these marital strains

Franklin and Lucy’s relationship deepened they frequently socialized together often accompanied by others to Main contain appearances Franklin’s letters to elanar during this time were careful to mention Lucy in a casual nonchalant manner yet they did little to quell ellena’s suspicions the relationship between Franklin and Lucy continued to intensify in the public eye with rumors and sightings of them together becoming more common friends and acquaintances of the couple such as Edith Morton Eustace and Alice Roosevelt Longworth facilitated

their meetings providing spaces for them to be together away from the public eye Franklin relished the secrecy and Thrill of the affair while Lucy found in Franklin the charm attention and love she sought in the fall of 1917 the personal lives of Lucy Mercer and Franklin and Elena Roosevelt were deeply affected by both public gossip and private grief Lucy’s father Carol Mercer passed away on September 13th 1917 after a prolonged ill his death was a significant event for Lucy causing her to reflect on her own life and choices despite her parents

estrangement Lucy Had maintained a relationship with her father and his passing likely prompted her to consider the nature of her relationship with Franklin Roosevelt meanwhile in Washington DC rumors about the relationship between them were intensifying Elena Roosevelt already grappling with the challenges of her husband’s political career and her own public role faced the added strain of these rumors despite her initial reluctance to acknowledge the possibility of an affair The Continuous gossip and her own

intuition likely made her aware of the emotional distance growing between her and Franklin ellena’s struggle was compounded by her interactions with Alice Roosevelt Longworth Franklin’s cousin who seemed to enjoy provoking her about the affair despite ellena’s efforts to avoid confronting these issues the reality of her husband’s infidelity was becoming increasingly difficult to ignore the tension within the Roosevelt family was not limited to Franklin and Eleanor Franklin’s mother was also involved emphasizing the

importance of family tradition and responsibilities Franklin caught between his affection for Lucy his obligations to his family and his mother’s expectations was in a difficult position during this tumultuous period Elena found some solace in her relationship with her mother-in-law despite their past differences they shared a common interest in maintaining the family’s reputation and stability Elena’s appreciation of Sara’s support reflects the complexity of their relationship which was characterized by a mix of respect tension and shared

concern over Franklin’s actions Lucy Mercer faced an uncertain future despite her deep feelings for Franklin the societal constraints and religious considerations made the their relationship impossible Franklin’s desire for a political career the influence of his mother and his political adviser Louie how were significant factors in his decision to remain in his marriage with Ellena Elena upon discovering the affair through Lucy’s love letters found in Franklin’s luggage was deeply hurt this Revelation marked a turning point in her

life transforming her from a devoted wife and mother into an independent and influential public figure despite the pain of betrayal she chose to stay in the marriage for the sake of her children and Franklin’s political career the resolution of this complicated situation was not simple or painless Franklin agreed to end his relationship with Lucy and Ellena and Franklin’s marriage transitioned into more of a partnership focused on their family and his political aspirations this decision profoundly affected all parties involved ellena’s

subsequent journey of self-discovery and activism Franklin’s emergence as a more resilient and profound individual and Lucy’s eventual move to North Carolina to start a new underscored the profound personal growth and change they each experienced the end of World War I and the subsequent flu pandemic added to the era’s overall sense of loss and transformation Lucy’s eventual meeting with Winthrop Rutherford offered a new Direction in her life moving away from the herak of the past years Ruther F was initially entwined in the love life of

Consuelo Vanderbilt their Mutual affection however was overshadowed by the societal expectations and strategic marital plans of Alva Vanderbilt Consuelo’s mother Alva’s ambition for her daughter to marry nobility led to the arranged marriage of Consuelo with the Duke of Malboro despite Consuelo’s feelings for Rutherford in 1920 Lucy married Rutherford this marriage provided her with stability and a role as a stepmother a stark contrast to her previous position in the Roosevelt household and her secretive relationship

with Franklin Roosevelt Winthrop Rutherford a prominent figure in New York Society had been previously married to Alice Morton daughter of former vice president Levi Morton the Morton family was well connected and influential with Levi Morton having a distinguished career in politics and diplomacy the Morton sisters were known for their and social prominence and their marriages further solidified the family status in High Society Lucy’s decision to marry Rutherford was influenced by various factors despite the significant age

difference and the recent loss of his eldest son Rutherford offered Lucy a stable home and a prominent position in society her marriage was seen as a practical and necessary step especially given the social norms and expectations of the time the discreet manner in which Lucy and informed Franklin Roosevelt of her marriage through a mutual friend indicates the sensitivity and complexity of their past relationship Franklin’s reaction to the news described as startled but silent suggests that he still harbored feelings for Lucy despite

their separation Eleanor Roosevelt’s brief mention of the marriage in a letter to her mother-in-law reflects her relief at Lucy’s departure from their immediate circle possibly seeing it as closure to a painful chapter in in her life after Lucy Mercer’s departure from his life Franklin Roosevelt dedicated himself to his family making efforts to be a more present husband and father this change coincided with a transformative period in his life marked by personal trials and political Ambitions the Roosevelt’s trip to Europe

in 1919 symbolized a new phase in their marriage where they adopted a working partnership approach despite ellena’s inability to fully forgive Franklin for his affair they found a common ground in their family and his political career during this time Ellena began to contemplate her own identity and role leading her to pursue a more independent path and become more involved in public service and politics the turning point for Franklin revelt came with his illness in 1921 which left him paralyzed from the waist down this periode was a trial not

only for Franklin but also for Elanor and the entire family Elanor role evolved from a wife to a primary caregiver despite the severe challenges posed by his condition Franklin remained determined to continue his political career with the support of Elanor and his adviser Lewis how he gradually reentered the political Arena Eleanor’s increased involvement in the Democratic party during this time was crucial in keeping Franklin’s political prospects alive Roosevelt’s appearance at the 1924 Democratic National Convention where he

nominated Al Smith for president was a pivotal moment his struggle to reach the podium supported by braces and crutches was not only a testament to his personal determination but also a powerful political statement this moment marked his return to the National political stage and set the foundation for his future political successes including his eventual presidency the 1920s known as The Roaring 20s were a period of significant change and development in American society and Lucy Rutherford’s life reflected some of these

Transformations despite the era’s association with Flappers Jazz and a general sense of Liberation Lucy’s life was largely centered around her role as a wife to Winthrop Rutherford and a mother to his children as well as their daughter Barbara born in 1922 she and her family resided at Tranquility the Ruther Third Estate in Alami New Jersey which offered a Serene and fitting setting for their family life the estate with its sprawling acres and well equipped facilities allowed Lucy to engage in her interests such as

gardening while her husband continued his passion for breeding Champion fox terriers their life in Aken South Carolina was part of the seasonal migration of America’s Elite to warmer climates in akchen the rutherfords were well integrated into the Social Circles of the winter Colony a term used for the affluent Northerners who wintered there aen was known for its equestrian culture golfing and other leisure activities favored by the wealthy of that era Lucy’s life in achen where she and her family built ridgley Hall the two was

marked by a certain social prominence and comfort however it was also a life that seemed to have been chosen in pursuit of tranquility and stability perhaps as a way to move Beyond her past with Franklin Roosevelt Lucy’s correspondence with Roosevelt in the late 1920s suggests that while they they may not have been in regular contact since their parting there remained a cordiality and familiarity in their interactions her letters to him filled with updates about her family and their travels indicate a continued orbe at distant connection

during this time Franklin Roosevelt was making significant strides in his political career despite the challenges posed by his polio induced paralysis his efforts to rehabilitate his body and his political career were paying off and he was beginning to reestablish himself as a prominent figure in the Democratic party his election as president came at a time when the United States was in the throws of the Great Depression the economic crisis required bold and innovative solutions and Roosevelt’s New Deal aimed to provide relief recovery

and reform to a struggling Nation his inaugural address in 1933 with the famous line the only thing we have to fear is fear itself encapsulated his approach to leadership during this difficult period the assassination attempt on Roosevelt in February 1933 just before his inauguration highlighted the volatile and often dangerous nature of the political environment the incident which resulted in the death of Chicago’s mayor Anton chermac was a stark reminder of the challenges Roosevelt would face as a leader moreover the rise of Adolf Hitler to the

chancellorship of Germany in January 193 3 was a significant Global event for Roosevelt this posed not only a domestic challenge in terms of economic recovery but also foreshadowed the complex international issues he would have to navigate in the coming years in 1937 Lucy Rutherford had been married to Winthrop Rutherford for 17 years Rutherford once a vibrant Sportsman and golf Enthusiast was now 75 years old and in declining Health necessitating constant care from from Lucy the Rutherford children under Lucy’s care

showed excellence in sports like golf tennis and skull racing the sons Winthrop Jr John Hugo and Guy were notably tall and athletic with John also being a Golden Gloves champion and successful in boxing at Princeton the Rutherford daughters Alice and Barbara were active in the local Aken debutant scene and hores shows while the rutherfords participated in social activities like golf tournaments and Society events winthrip’s poor health limited their social engagements during this period artist Elizabeth schum became acquainted with

Lucy and was impressed by her character schum who was commissioned to paint portraits of the rutherfords noted Lucy’s dedication to her husband’s care despite her responsibilities Lucy maintained a discreet communication with Franklin Roosevelt often speaking in French to avoid eavesdropping Winthrop ru F’s Health continued to decline suffering a stroke in early 1941 and a second one in June severely limiting his mobility and speech Lucy sought to bring him to Washington for specialist treatment and contacted Roosevelt for assistance

despite Roosevelt’s busy schedule including dealing with his secretary Missy Lan’s stroke in June 1941 he remained in contact with Lucy the Ruther household had a strict rule against mentioning Franklin Roosevelt’s name partly due to winthrop’s Republican leanings and general opposition to Roosevelt’s new deal policies however Lucy’s admiration for Roosevelt remained evident in her correspondence where she expressed concern over the war and offered her help in gathering information about aen residents involved

in defense orders in June 1941 Franklin and Lucy who had not seen each other for over two decades reunited under dramatically different circumstances compared to their parting in 1918 Roosevelt now 59 and the president of the United States and Lucy 50 and immersed in her family life met again as World War II loomed over the United States Roosevelt who had led the country through the Great Depression was navigating a complex International situation despite his Fireside Chats aimed at maintaining American neutrality

the global context was changing rapidly the fall of France in Main 1940 left Britain standing alone against Nazi Germany meanwhile Roosevelt faced internal pressures regarding America’s role in the war which became a central issue in the 1940 presidential campaign against Wendell Wilkey as Roosevelt’s wife Elena focused on her own initiatives and travels and with both his secretary and Lucy’s husband incapacitated Roosevelt and Lucy found opportunities to reconnect according to White House Records Lucy under the

pseudonym Mrs Paul Johnson visited Roosevelt multiple times often dining alone with him and engaging in private conversations these meetings facilitated by discret arrangements and Roosevelt’s use of an unmarked car allowed the pair to revive their connection discussing personal matters and the immense Global challenges Roosevelt faced Lucy also sought Roosevelt’s assistance for her family and friends reflecting a blend of personal and political dimensions in their interactions the year 1941 was marked by significant personal and

Global events for Roosevelt the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor on December 7th 1941 brought the United States directly into World War II a pivotal moment underlined by Roosevelt’s famous address to Congress declaring it a date which will live in infamy upon hearing of the attack on Pearl Harbor Winston Churchill expressed profound relief and satisfaction at the United States entry into World War II knowing it would significantly bolster the Allies chances of Victory the attack which occurred on December 7th 1941

marked a pivotal shift in the United States foreign policy transitioning from isolationism to active involvement in the conflict this shift was reflected in the American public’s response as exemplified by the popularity of the song remember Pearl Harbor and the widespread participation in activities like flying flag planting Victory Gardens and engaging in rationing for the war effort civil defense efforts were also ramped up with citizens vigilant for enemy activity the war effort required massive mobilization

with 12 million people joining the armed forces and 15 million others relocating for war related work women played a crucial role with 6 million entering the workforce symbolized by the iconic figure of Rosie the Riveter this period saw a profound transformation in American society with women taking on roles traditionally held by men within the Roosevelt and Rutherford families the war had personal impacts all of Roosevelt’s Sons served in various branches of the military and Lucy’s children were also involved in

the war effort with Roosevelt playing a role in facilitating their military careers Lucy’s communication with Roosevelt during this period extended to discussions about her family contributions to the war effort Lucy faced a personal loss with the death of her husband Winthrop Rutherford in March 1944 after his passing Lucy found herself in a state of loneliness reflecting on their 24 years of marriage and the life they had shared this period marked a significant transition in her life as she grappled with the reality of

being alone in November 1943 a significant Summit took place in tan Iran marking the first time Soviet leader Joseph Stalin joined British prime minister Winston Churchill and US President Franklin D Roosevelt in a highlevel meeting the key agenda for the Tran conference was to discuss Operation Overlord the planned invasion of Europe from the north Roosevelt’s decision to exclude women from the delegation including his wife Ellena and daughter Anna Drew criticism especially after photographs showed Churchill accompanied

by his daughters Sarah and Chang Sheek with his wife Madame Chang Anna Roosevelt later reconciled with her father’s decision when she was included in his subsequent overseas trip by March 1944 Anna had moved into the White House taking residence in the Lincoln Suite formerly occupied by Harry and Louise Hopkins with Hopkins having moved out and Missy leand ill President Roosevelt experienced loneliness in the White House often dining alone and became an integral part of her father’s Life acting as his Hostess screening

visitors and assisting with speeches she balanced these duties while her husband worked at the Pentagon perfectly fitting into the White House Dynamics during this period Roosevelt’s Health was deteriorating he suffered from high blood pressure fluid in the lungs and heart failure as diagnosed by cardiologist Howard bruan despite the severity of his condition details of his health were kept from the public due to the upcoming 1944 presidential election Ellena Roosevelt unaware of the seriousness of her husband’s Health

attributed his poor condition to the stress of war in April 1944 seeking respite Roosevelt stayed at Bernard book’s hobor Barony in South Carolina during this time he met with Lucy rekindling their long-standing friendship Lucy’s Presence at the White House and other private meetings with Roosevelt continued over the following months facilitated by Anna these visits remained discreet with the Press not being informed of Lucy’s identity during her white house stays the relationship between Roosevelt and Lucy was marked by

Deep affection and shared history transcending decades and personal challenges Roosevelt’s visits to Lucy at her estate in Alami New Jersey were discreetly arranged with Lucy even having a special phone installed for confidential Communications Missy leand Roosevelt’s longtime secretary and confident passed away in July 1944 deeply affecting the president in the same year Roosevelt made secret visits to Lucy indicating the closeness and importance of their relationship even as World War II continued to unfold in late 1944 President Roosevelt

traveled to the little white house in Warm Springs Georgia for his annual Thanksgiving dinner with fellow polio patients accompanying him were his distant cousins Laura Delano known as Polly and Margaret Daisy suckley Who provided companionship in the last years of his life paully known for her eccentricities dyed her hair blue and loved flamboyant jewelry Daisy in contrast was quiet and gentle known for her wit and as The Giver of FDR’s beloved Scotty failer during this period Lucy visited him at Warm Springs with her daughter bar ra

Daisy suckley in her records noted Lucy’s concern for Roosevelt’s Health echoing her own worries Lucy and Barbara stayed in a guest Cottage and the group spent time together including a drive to dowell’s Knob a place with sentimental value for Roosevelt the relationship between Roosevelt and Lucy remained significant with both women Daisy and Lucy understanding and respecting their shared concern for him Lucy who had recently moved into a smaller home in ien after the death of her husband continued to visit Roosevelt in

Washington when Ellena was away often staying with her sister Violeta in early 1945 Lucy accompanied Roosevelt from Washington to Hyde Park Daisy suckley now referring to Lucy as her new cousin described their relationship as one of unselfish devotion Lucy attended Roosevelt’s fourth inauguration from the lawn of the White House where he gave a short and poignant address Roosevelt’s Health continued to decline evident during the Yalta Conference and upon his return to the US in March Lucy visited Washington again spending time with

Roosevelt in the Virginia Countryside and having meals with him and Anna at the White House as he prepared for a restful period at Warm Springs in April Lucy arranged for artist Elizabeth schum to paint his portrait shumov Lucy and a photographer traveled to Warm Springs but due to a delay they missed their rendevu with Roosevelt in mackan they eventually found him in Greenville near Warm Springs where schum observed Roosevelt’s deteriorating health and questioned the feasibility of painting his portrait on April 12th 1945 at

around 330 p.m. President Roosevelt passed away in Warm Springs Georgia the news was relayed to the White House and the difficult task of informing Elena fell to press secretary Steve early and Dr Mcintyre Elena who had been away at a speaking engagement was asked to return immediately she instinctively knew the gravity of the situation but maintained composure until the news was confirmed she traveled to Warm Springs and upon arrival sought details about Franklin’s final moments from Daisy suckley and Polly

Delano it was Polly who informed Elena about the extent of Franklin’s relationship with Lucy including Anna’s role in facilitating their meetings this Revelation was a profound betrayal for Elena as it not only highlighted Franklin’s infidelity but also involved her daughter following Roosevelt’s death Elena found herself sifting through his belongings at Hyde Park in a gesture of acknowledgement and closure she sent a small watercolor of FDR painted by Elizabeth schum to Lucy Lucy continued to live a quiet life rotating between

her homes in Aken and Alami her own health declined and she was eventually diagnosed with leukemia Lucy Rutherford passed away on July 31st 1948 at the age of 57 her death was a somber moment for those who had known her including Anna Roosevelt who expressed her sadness in a letter to Daisy suckley Lucy’s obituary in the New York Times reflected more on her husband and his first wife than on her own life but this likely would not have troubled Lucy who had always prioritized others over herself in the Tranquility of her

final resting place next to her husband Lucy found her own peace thank you for joining us on this remarkable trip through history if you have any thoughts about today’s story or if there are other Mysteries or Heroes you’d like us to explore please leave a comment  below  

 

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