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Steve Harvey LOSES IT When 7-Year-Old Contestant Explains What Her Mom Told Her Backstage

” The audience laughed and awed at her confidence. Steve’s smile grew even bigger. “You’re going to help your family win? That’s a big job for a seven-year-old. You think you can handle it? Yes, sir. Lily said seriously. My mama told me something backstage that’s going to help me be brave. Steve raised his eyebrows with interest.

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Oh, your mama told you something backstage. What did she tell you? But before Lily could answer, Sarah, her mother, gently touched her daughter’s shoulder. Maybe we should save that for later, baby. Let Mr. Harvey do his introductions. Steve noticed something in that moment, something in Sarah’s eyes. There was emotion there, something deeper than just normal pregame nerves.

But he moved on, respecting the mother’s wish, though he filed away that moment in his mind. He continued with the introductions, learning that Sarah was a nurse at UCSF Medical Center, that Grandmother Wei had immigrated from China 50 years ago and had built a successful small business, that Daniel was a straight A student hoping to become a doctor, and that Aunt Michelle was a teacher who worked with special needs children.

It was a family of helpers, a family of caregivers, a family that had clearly instilled strong values in their children. The game began, and despite her small size, Lily was fully engaged. She couldn’t reach the buzzer on her own, so Daniel, her older brother, had lifted her up so she could stand on a small platform the producers had provided.

Every time someone gave an answer, Lily clapped enthusiastically. When her family got points, she jumped up and down with joy. When the other family scored, she clapped for them, too, which made Steve laugh. “Liy, baby, you know you don’t have to clap for the other team, right?” Steve said during one exchange.

“Lily looked at him seriously. My mama says we should be happy for other people’s success, not just our own. That’s what good people do.” Steve stopped midstep and looked at this seven-year-old with amazement. The audience applauded her wisdom. “Your mama is teaching you right,” Steve said, visibly moved.

“Your mama is teaching you exactly right.” The game progressed through several rounds with both families playing well. The Chen family was slightly ahead, but the Morrison family was right behind them. Lily hadn’t had a chance to answer any questions yet. The buzzer rounds had all been won by the adult family members. But then came a question that would change everything.

Steve read the card. We asked 100 people, “What’s something a mother does that shows she loves you?” The two fastest players from each family were at the buzzers. For the Chen family, it was Sarah, Lily’s mother. For the Morrison family, it was their father figure. Sarah buzzed in first. “Taking care of you when you’re sick,” she said.

“Survey says,” Steve called out. It was the number two answer on the board. The Chen family had control of the question and could choose to play or pass. “We’re going to play,” Sarah said confidently. The question went down the line of the Chen family. Grandmother Weey said, “Cooking your favorite meals.” Number four on the board.

Aunt Michelle said, “Helping with homework.” Number five on the board. Daniel said, “Giving hugs.” Number three on the board. They had gotten four answers, but they also had one strike from an answer that wasn’t on the board. That meant they could afford one more wrong answer before the other family got a chance to steal.

Now it was Lily’s turn. The entire studio seemed to hold its breath. This 7-year-old girl, who had been cheering for everyone and showing wisdom beyond her years, was about to give her answer about what mothers do to show love. Steve kneelled down to her level again, holding the microphone toward her. Okay, Miss Lily, this is your moment.

What’s something a mother does that shows she loves you? Lily looked at her mother and something passed between them. Something profound and unspoken. Sarah’s eyes filled with tears immediately and she nodded at her daughter, giving her permission for something. Lily turned back to Steve and in her clear, innocent seven-year-old voice, she said, “A mother fights monsters.

” The audience laughed, thinking it was a cute, childish answer about mothers checking under the bed for imaginary monsters. Steve smiled too, expecting to see this answer not on the board. “A mother fights monsters,” Steve repeated with a chuckle. “Okay, baby. Let’s see if it’s up there. Survey says.

” The answer was not on the board, of course. That was strike two for the Chen family. They had one more chance. But Steve noticed that Sarah was crying now. Not little tears, but real sobs. Grandmother Weey had her arm around her daughter, and she was crying, too. Daniel, the teenage brother, had tears streaming down his face. Aunt Michelle was wiping her eyes.

Steve’s smile faded as he realized this wasn’t what he thought it was. Something was happening here. Something real and deep and painful. Hold on. Hold on, Steve said, stopping the game. He looked at Lily, who was standing there calmly, not upset that her answer wasn’t on the board, just looking at her mother with pure love in her eyes.

Then Steve looked at Sarah, who was trying to compose herself, but couldn’t. Sarah, Steve said gently, “What’s going on here? Talk to me.” Sarah tried to speak but couldn’t get the words out. She just shook her head, covering her face with her hands. Grandmother Wei spoke up instead, her voice accented but clear, her own tears flowing.

Mr. Harvey, my daughter has been fighting cancer for 2 years. Stage 4 breast cancer. She has been fighting so hard for her children, for her family, for her life. She is the strongest woman I know. The studio fell completely silent. The Morrison family, their competitors, were crying now, too.

Steve Harvey, who had seen so much in his years of hosting, stood there with his mouth open, trying to process what he had just heard. He looked at Sarah with new eyes, and suddenly he could see it. The headscarf wrapped beautifully around her head, which he had thought was just a fashion choice. the slight frailness in her frame, the way her family surrounded her so protectively.

“You’re battling cancer?” Steve asked Sarah softly. Sarah nodded, finally able to speak. “For 2 years, I was diagnosed when Lily was 5 and Daniel was 14. Stage four.” They told me I had maybe a year, two if I was lucky, and if the treatment worked. But I’m still here. I’m still fighting.

Steve’s eyes filled with tears. And Lily knows. She knows. Sarah said, looking down at her daughter with infinite love. We couldn’t hide it from her. She seen me at my worst on my sickest days, losing my hair, too weak to get out of bed. But we never lied to her. We told her mama was fighting monsters inside her body and that sometimes the fight makes mama very tired, but mama never stops fighting.

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