Two women walked onto a film set carrying completely different versions of themselves. One carried grace. The other carried chaos. Neither knew what the other would take from them. Neither knew what they would leave behind. What happened between them over the following months would not make headlines. No cameras captured it.
No publicist shaped it. It was simply two women opposites in almost every visible way discovering that the differences between them were not walls. They were doors. Los Angeles, California. Shadow Ranch, San Fernando Valley. Summer, 1961. The historic ranch sits in the western edge of the valley surrounded by dry hills, old eucalyptus trees, and the particular silence of a location that has agreed to pretend it is somewhere else.
This is where William Wyler has chosen to build his girl’s school. This is where Audrey Hepburn and Shirley MacLaine will spend the better part of 3 months playing women whose lives are destroyed by a lie. This is where something unexpected will happen. Not in front of the cameras, but around them. William Wyler is 58 years old.
Three Academy Awards. 36 years of directing. He is one of the most respected filmmakers in Hollywood history. He directed Audrey in Roman Holiday in 1953. The film that won her the Oscar, launched her career, made her a star. She trusts him completely. He brought her into Hollywood. He shaped her first major performance.
When he called her for this film 8 years later, she said yes before he finished the sentence. But Wyler has a problem and he knows it. He has spent years wanting to remake this film correctly. In 1936, he directed these three based on the same Lillian Hellman play. But the Hays Code had forced him to change the central truth of the story.
Two women accused of being lovers became two women accused of a heterosexual indiscretion. The original wound, a lie about female homosexuality destroying two lives, had been sanitized beyond recognition. “This was not the picture I had intended.” He said later. He never forgave himself for it. Now, in 1961, the Hays Code has relaxed enough to tell the real story.
Wyler has the rights. He has the screenplay faithful to Hellman’s original. He has his two stars. He even has Miriam Hopkins, who played one of the lead roles in the 1936 version, returning now in a supporting part. The symmetry is almost perfect. He says publicly, “I haven’t done a remake. This time I actually filmed Lillian Hellman’s play.
” But something stops him. Again, Audrey Hepburn, 32 years old in 1961. She has spent the past 8 years building one of the most carefully constructed images in Hollywood history. Grace, elegance, warmth, the gamine who runs through Rome, the wide-eyed girl in front of Tiffany’s. The world has decided what Audrey Hepburn is, and Audrey has learned, sometimes at great cost, to protect that image.
She is not a fragile woman. She is a practical one. She survived a Nazi occupation as a child, watched people disappear, ate tulip bulbs in a Dutch winter because there was nothing else. She does not frighten easily. But she understands what Hollywood image means. She understands what can be taken away. The role Wyler has cast her in is Karen Wright, a schoolteacher, engaged to a good man, orderly, disciplined, controlled.
In other words, Audrey playing something close to what the world already believes Audrey to be. Safe in that specific way. Shirley MacLaine, 27 years old, 5 years younger than Audrey. She has built her early career on something almost opposite to Audrey’s image. The lovable mess, the unpredictable kook, the woman who says the thing you weren’t supposed to say.
In The Apartment, released just the previous year, she played a woman who attempted suicide and then went back to the married man who drove her to it. Not exactly the Audrey Hepburn template. Shirley has a foul mouth on set. She says exactly what she thinks. She mentored the child actress Veronica Cartwright during production so warmly that Cartwright later recalls the experience as a gift while simultaneously being pointed out to the other children on set as someone they should not hang around.
“We were told not to hang around Shirley because she had a foul mouth.” Cartwright remembers. “But she was so cool.” The role Wyler has cast Shirley in is Martha Dobie, Karen’s closest friend, business partner, the woman who, as the film unfolds, discovers that the lie a vicious child told about her, that she is in love with Karen, is not entirely a lie.
This is not a role for someone managing an image. This is a role that requires complete exposure. It will become, in the estimation of many critics who see the finished film, one of the finest performances of Shirley MacLaine’s career. But before any of that can happen, the two women have to find each other.
They are not strangers when filming begins. Hollywood in 1961 is a small world. They have been in the same rooms, the same parties, the same circles, but they have not worked together. They have not sat across a table from each other at 6:00 in the morning, both exhausted, both trying to locate something true inside a difficult scene, both aware that the man behind the cameras wrestling with his own fears about what he is making.
Because Wyler is afraid. Not of the women, of the reaction. He has already made one compromise on this material 25 years earlier, an entire film’s worth of compromise. And now, even with a more permissive code, even with two brilliant actresses who can handle the weight of the story, he begins to cut. Not after filming, during it.
He shoots scenes and then decides not to use them. He films two women in the intimate spaces that friendship occupies, brushing each other’s hair, ironing clothes together, standing close in the easy way that old friends stand close. And then he removes those scenes from the film. He cuts the physical tenderness out.
MacLaine talks about this for the rest of her life. Decades later, at TCM Fest, at 80 years old, she is still thinking about it. “Scenes of brushing each other’s hair or ironing clothes, he cut some of them out, and in doing so, I think paired the picture down a little bit.” In a 1996 interview for the documentary The Celluloid Closet, she goes further.
She says she and Audrey never even talked about the homosexual nature of their characters on set. Not once. Not in 3 months of filming. The subject sat between them, enormous and unspoken, present in every scene they shot together, and they did not name it. This is worth sitting with. Two intelligent women playing characters whose central conflict is a question of love and identity working together for months, and the subject of their characters’ love, the very engine of the story, never comes up between them.
Not in the morning when they are waiting for the lighting to be adjusted. Not in the afternoon when they are sitting in chairs between setups. Not over dinner. Not at all. Why? Because it is 1961. Because the word lesbian is never uttered in the film. Wyler has insisted on this, and Hellman’s play never uses it either.
Because what cannot be named on screen cannot easily be named off it. Because both women understand, in the way that all performers understand the unspoken rules of their industry, that there are conversations that do not happen here. Not yet. So they carry the weight of it, the unspoken center of the story, into every scene and let it live there silently.
What they talk about instead is everything else. This is where Shirley MacLaine begins to find the woman beneath the image, and it is not what she expected. Audrey Hepburn, it turns out, can tell a dirty joke. Andre Previn, who knows her well, will say later, “The extraordinary mystique of hers made you think she lived on rose petals and listened to nothing but Mozart.
But it wasn’t true. She was quite funny and ribald. She could tell a dirty joke. She played charades with a great sense of fun and vulgarity. On set with Shirley MacLaine, some of this comes out because Shirley’s energy draws it out. Shirley does not perform decorum. She says the impolite thing. She laughs too loudly.
She uses the word that should not be used. And Audrey, instead of retreating into elegance, matches her carefully, with perfect comic timing and with clear delight. There is something else on this set that no production report would record. Audrey’s son, Sean, not yet a year old, born the previous summer in Lucerne, is present at Shadow Ranch during filming.
Photographs show Audrey and Shirley together with the infant between takes. Two women, a baby, the warmth of a set that has found its rhythm. Shirley, who has her own child at home, meets Audrey not as icon, but as mother. Someone whose real priority, even in the middle of a difficult film, is that small person she has brought with her to the valley.
This is not the Audrey Hepburn of magazine covers. This is simply a woman trying to do two things at once. The way women do. What grows between them in those hours, between scenes, beside a baby, in the California heat, becomes the friendship that will outlast the film by decades. Years later, when people ask Shirley MacLaine what she remembers about making The Children’s Hour, she reaches for a single image that contains everything.
Not the dramatic scenes, not the cut footage, not the silences around the unspoken subject. Something smaller. Something true. “I taught her how to cuss.” Shirley says, with the particular pride of someone who has given an unusual and valued gift. “She taught me how to dress.” The second half of that exchange is easy to imagine.
Audrey watching Shirley throw clothes on with the cheerful disorder of someone who has never given her wardrobe a serious thought. Audrey saying something, gently, precisely, with the authority of a woman who has spent her career understanding how clothing speaks. That makes Shirley stop and look at herself differently.
Not a criticism. An education. Given freely because that is how Audrey gives things. But the first half is the one that lingers. Shirley creating enough safety that Audrey could be something other than perfect. Even for a few minutes. Even just in the way language can feel different when you say the word you are not supposed to say.
Audrey Hepburn, the woman the world had agreed to think of as beyond such things, finding, in Shirley’s company, a small permission to be otherwise. This is what Shirley gives her. Not a lesson. Not advice. Permission to be a little less constructed. To let something messy and human surface briefly, privately. To stop performing grace for 5 minutes and just be a woman sitting in a chair saying something ridiculous.
On screen, the dynamic goes the other way. It is Audrey’s character who is the controlled center of the story. Karen Wright holds herself together. She processes the disaster that descends on their lives with a terrible, quiet efficiency. She does not collapse. She does not rage. She carries it. This is what Audrey does best.
The interior performance. The held emotion. The suggestion of depths that never quite break the surface. Critics notice. Variety writes that Hepburn’s work shows soft sensitivity, marvelous projection, and emotional understatement, resulting in a memorable portrayal. But Shirley’s performance is something else entirely.
Martha Dobie breaks open. She breaks in the scene everyone who has seen the film remembers. The long, devastating confession where she admits to Karen that the lie the child told was not entirely untrue. That she has felt something. That she has always felt something. That she does not understand it and cannot stop it.
And has no language for it that the world will accept. And that this understanding, arriving fully only now, in the wreckage of everything they have built, is both a discovery and a sentence. MacLaine plays this with total exposure. Nothing protected. Nothing managed. Wyler, watching the rushes, knows he has something extraordinary.
Both performances, together and apart. The controlled woman and the woman coming apart at the seams. He also knows he is not brave enough to show everything. He cuts the hair-brushing scenes. He cuts the quiet domestic tenderness that might make the relationship too clearly legible. He keeps the explosion, MacLaine’s confession, but removes the foundation of intimacy that would have made it even more devastating.
MacLaine never quite forgives him for this. “I think he got afraid of it.” She says, with the directness that has always been her particular gift and her particular challenge. She is not wrong. Wyler, who had fought so long to make this film honestly, blinked at the last moment. He made the film. He just made a slightly smaller version of the film he could have made.
The Children’s Hour is released on December 19th, 1961, with a black-tie gala premiere at the Fox Wilshire Theatre in Los Angeles. Veronica Cartwright, who plays one of the schoolgirls, is allowed to attend the premiere, but not permitted to see the film. This detail says everything about the particular anxiety surrounding the project.
Present it. Celebrate it. But do not let the children near it. The film is received as the brave, serious, important work it is. And also as something that could have been braver. Critics recognize both things at once, which is perhaps the most honest response possible. What is undeniable is the performances.
What is undeniable is that two women made something real together. Even inside all the constraints. Even with the director removing scenes from the film as he made it. After the film wraps, Audrey and Shirley do not live in each other’s pockets. They are different people with different lives pulling in different directions.
Audrey moves toward a quieter existence. She will spend much of the following decade stepping back from Hollywood, raising her son, Sean, with Mel Ferrer, choosing family over career in a way that confuses an industry that believed she belonged to it. Shirley moves in the opposite direction. More films, more roles, more of everything.
An energy that seems incapable of stillness. But the friendship holds. Not through constant contact. Not through regular letters or telephone calls or public declarations. It holds the way certain friendships hold. Through a recognition so complete that time and distance do not diminish it. When they are in the same room again, they pick up from exactly where they left off.
As if no time has passed. As if the conversation that began at Shadow Ranch in the summer of 1961 simply paused and is now continuing. Shirley tries to articulate this years later with characteristic precision. “Audrey was the kind of person who, when she saw someone else suffering, tried to take the pain on herself.
She was a healer. She knew how to love. You didn’t have to be in constant contact with her to feel you had a friend. We always picked up right where we left off.” This is a particular kind of love. Not the love that requires maintenance. Not the love that needs to be fed constantly or it Withers. The love that simply exists, fully formed, regardless of distance or silence or the passage of years.
The love that makes a phone call after months, after years, feel like a continuation rather than a reunion. Audrey carries Shirley with her through the changes that come. The end of her first marriage. The years of withdrawal from Hollywood. The second marriage to Andrea Dotti in 1969. The birth of her second son, Luca, in 1970.
The slow, deliberate turning toward something larger than herself. Toward UNICEF. Toward the children in the places where suffering is not photographed elegantly, but simply is. Through all of it, the people who knew her in the early days, who knew her before the image calcified into icon, Shirley is one of them.
One of the ones who knew the woman who could curse and laugh too loudly and be deliberately gleefully impolite in a California summer between takes. Shirley carries Audrey with her, too. A different lesson. Something about stillness. Something about how a person can be enormously present without being loud about it.
Something about elegance, not as performance, but as a way of moving through the world that costs less energy than chaos, even though it looks like it requires more. She does not become Audrey. That was never the point. But she understands something after 3 months in a woman’s company that she could not have understood otherwise.
They are, in the end, a study in what genuine difference can produce when neither person tries to resolve it. They simply exist beside each other, bringing what they bring, taking what is offered, finding in the gap between them something neither could have found alone. The Children’s Hour is not remembered as Audrey Hepburn’s finest film.
It is complicated, constrained, haunted by what it could not quite say. But it gave Audrey something the glossier films, the ones where she was simply beautiful and the audience was simply happy, could not give her. It gave her Shirley MacLaine. And it gave Shirley something, too. When Audrey dies in January 1993 at 63 years old in her home in Tolochenaz, Switzerland, Shirley is among those who feel the particular grief of losing someone they had not needed to speak to constantly to love completely.
The friendship that required no maintenance. The friend who was always there, even when she was not there. The woman who taught her, among other things, between takes in the California summer heat, on a film set where a director was quietly afraid of his own story, that elegance is not the opposite of humanity.
It is just another form of it. And Shirley MacLaine, who has spent a lifetime being the version of herself that does not pretend, who has never once performed a composure she did not feel, says it the way only she can say it. She was a healer. She knew how to love. That is the whole story, really. Everything else, the film, the director, the cut scenes, the unspoken subject, the curses learned in summer, the lessons in how to dress, is just the container for that.
She was a healer. She knew how to love. And Shirley MacLaine, of all the people in Audrey Hepburn’s life, may have been one of the few who saw it clearly enough to say so simply. Every week, one moment from Audrey Hepburn’s life. Subscribe so you don’t miss the next one.
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