Weather conditions were poor, but the flight had not been cancelled. The plane had crashed into the San Bernardino Mountains. Dean Paul had died on impact. He hadn’t suffered, but this was no consolation for Dean. Dean Martin’s world collapsed with that phone call. Dean Paul wasn’t just his son. He was also Dean’s closest friend, musical partner, the person he shared his dreams with.
Dean’s other children were also beloved, but his bond with Dean Paul was different. Dean Paul also wanted to follow in his father’s footsteps. He was a musician, but also dreamed of being a pilot. He was successful at both. He had studied music at USC, then joined the Air Force. My son was more talented than me.
Dean would say he could sing, fly planes, and play guitar. I only knew how to sing beautifully. He could do everything. Dean Paul’s funeral was held in Hollywood. Sinatra, Sammy Davis Jr., Peter Lofford came, but Dean couldn’t speak at all. He just sat and cried. Dean Paul’s death completely changed Dean. For the first three months, he never went on stage.
His manager, Herman Cetron, had to cancel numerous shows. Dean would sit alone at home looking at Dean Paul’s photographs. His family was seriously worried. Dean wasn’t eating, sleeping, just drinking. He lost 20 lbs. His doctor had to prescribe anti-depressants. “Dad, you need to go out.” His daughter Gail would say every day.
Dean Paul wouldn’t want to see you like this. He would want you to be strong. Strong? Dean would respond with a bitter smile. I’ve been on stage for 50 years. I’ve never felt this powerless. Dean’s closest friends were worried. Frank Sinatra called every day asking about his condition. But Dean didn’t want to talk to anyone. I was singing for him.
Dean would tell his friends. He was at every concert. I would look for him among the audience. Smile when our eyes met. Now, what should I sing for? Who should I make happen? After Frank Sinatra’s death, only Dean was left from the rat pack. Sammy Davis Jr. was also sick. Dean was completely alone in the music world.
But the hardest part was when nights approached. When night came, he missed Dean Paul more. He would come home after pilot training, have dinner with his father, talk about music. Dean’s depression deepened so much that he started going to a psychologist. Dr. Elizabeth Harper worked with Hollywood’s famous artists. Mr. Martin, Dr.
Harper said, “Grief is a pro, but isolation is not the solution. Music is your therapy. Maybe you should return to the stage.” Doctor Dean replied, “You’re not a musician. You can’t understand that music needs motivation. My motivation is dead.” 6 months later, his agent, Herman Cetron, decided to convince Dean.
Herman had been Dean’s representative for 30 years. He knew him very well. Dean, your fans are waiting for you. Letters come every day. People are worried. Maybe you should make a small comeback. Dean hesitated. I don’t know, Herman. I don’t feel ready. What if I go on stage and cry? What if I stop in the middle of a song and run away? Then you’ll cry.
People will understand. You’re Dean Martin. Everyone loves you. Showing vulnerability isn’t a problem. Herman was right. Dean’s fans loved him not just as an entertainer, but as a human being. Just try one night. Bali’s casino wants a small show, 100 people, intimate venue. It won’t be big. Maybe you’ll feel comfortable. Dean finally agreed.
March 21, 1987 night. An evening with Dean Martin. He never guessed it would be his LA. But what Dean didn’t know was that he wasn’t mentally prepared for that night. On the evening of March 21, Dean was sitting in his dressing room, looking at himself in the mirror, seeing his 69 years, but he had aged, not just physically, but spiritually.
The sparkle in his eyes had faded. His usual confidence had disappeared. Three photographs of Dean Paul sat on his desk, one in pilot uniform, one singing with his guitar, one playing golf with his father. Dean touched each one. Son, tonight will be difficult. Give me strength if you’re there. Help your dad. The makeup artist came. Mr.
Martin, are you ready? I’ll never be ready. Dean answered honestly. But I’ll try. 5 minutes left, Mr. Martin. The stage manager knocked on the door. Dean’s hands were shaking. In his 50-year career, he had done thousands of concerts, but had never been so nervous in any of them. Dean Paul, he whispered one last time. “Don’t leave me, son.
This is for you.” The stage entrance music began. The orchestra started playing. “Everybody loves somebody.” Dean took a deep breath, kissed Dean Paul’s pilot photo, and walked toward the stage. When the curtain opened, 1,200 people were standing and applauding. They were chanting, “Dean, Dean, Dean rhythmically.
” The audience had really missed Dean. They hadn’t seen him for 6 months. Dean approached his microphone. He was trying to smile, but the sadness in his eyes couldn’t be hidden. The audience could immediately notice it, too. Good evening, folks. Thank you for coming tonight. Seeing you is really wonderful. Applause. But Dean’s voice sounded different than usual. Shaky, fragile, tired.
I haven’t been on stage for a long time. As you know, I had some personal losses. Family matters. Maybe you heard from the newspapers. The audience fell silent. They could feel Dean’s vulnerability. This wasn’t the normal Dean Martin energy. Normal Dean Martin would be confident, cool, relaxed. He started the first song.
Ain’t that a kick in the head? Dean began the song, but his voice lacked its usual confidence. He was singing, but it was like he was on autopilot. He knew the words. He knew the notes, but there was no soul in the song. He finished the song. Applause came, but Dean’s usual dynamism was missing. The audience was noticing this. Thank you.
Dean said, “You know, music has always been my life. I’ve been on this stage for 50 years, but late lately, I’ve been having trouble finding that old joy in it. The audience was uncomfortable. Dean Martin wouldn’t talk like this. Dean Martin was always upbeat, fun, smiling. This vulnerability surprised them.” The second song was That’s Amore.
Dean’s most famous, most beloved song. The audience waited excitedly. Dean started the song in Napoli where love is king. When boy meets girl, but he stopped in the second verse. The song’s lyrics got stuck in his throat. I’m sorry folks. I This song reminds me of my son. Dean Paul loved this song so much. When I was practicing at home, he would always say, “Dad, sing that’s a more one more time.
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” He wanted to learn the Italian parts. Dean’s voice cracked. His eyes filled with tears. He was about to start crying in front of hundred people. He hadn’t cried on stage in 50 years. The audience was shocked. Dean Martin crying on stage. Was this possible? Dean tried to pull himself together. He put his hand to his eyes.
I’m sorry. Let me try again. It’s just things are a bit difficult these days. He started that some more again. But in the chorus part, that famous When the Moon Hits Your Eye Like a Big Pizza Pie part, he stopped again. When the moon hits your eye, Dean was singing, but then suddenly stopped.
He couldn’t hold the microphone. I can’t. I’m sorry, my son. He’s gone. He always listened to this song. Now, who am I singing for? Dean put the microphone back on the stand and turned to the back of the stage. He covered his face with his hand. The audience didn’t know what to do. They had never seen such a thing. Dean Martin was having a breakdown on stage. The stage manager ran to Dean.
Miss Martin, is everything okay? We can take a 10-minute break if you want. No, Dean whispered, “Nothing is okay. I miss my son. I miss him every day. I remember him in every song.” But Dean somehow pulled himself together. Dean Martin professionalism kicked in. He returned to the audience.
Ladies and gentlemen, I apologize. This isn’t your fault. Losing a child, it’s something that never goes away. Every morning you wake up looking for him, waiting for him to call. Then you remember emotional silence. Then someone from the audience shouted, “We love you, Dean.” Then others, too. You’re the best, Dean. We’re with you.
You’re in our hearts. You’re our hero. Dean was moved by this unexpected love and support. Thank you. You’re very kind. This This is really a very difficult period. Dean decided to try a third song. Everybody loves somebody. This was his signature song. The song that defined his career. But in the second verse of the song, Dean became emotional again.
Everybody loves somebody sometime. Everybody finds somebody someday. Dean had paused. These lyrics reminded him of Dean Paul. Dean Paul was engaged. Planning to marry Olivia Hussie. They had even set the wedding date. He was going to get married. Dean suddenly said in the middle of the song, “My son, he was going to marry Olivia in June.
” Olivia Hussy from Romeo and Juliet. As you know, he was going to bring me grandchildren. Beautiful Italian English mixed grandchildren. And now Dean couldn’t continue. He put down the microphone and went to the edge of the stage. He sat in the small chair at the edge of the stage. The audience was completely silent.
They were witnessing Dean Martin’s public breakdown. This was also a traumatic experience for them. The orchestra conductor didn’t know what to do. Continue. Stop. He tried to get a sign from Dean. Dean took a deep breath. Standing up again. He turned to the audience. Folks, I thought I was ready for this. I thought 6 months had passed.
So, I was ready, but I’m not. Music. It doesn’t sound the same without him listening. I’m standing on stage, but he’s not there. He’s not sitting in the front row looking proudly. emotional silent. The audience could physically feel Dean’s pain. Dean Paul was he was everything to me. He was my closest friend.
He was the only son who would continue the Martin name. Now I’m the last Martin. The lineage ends with me. Dean’s voice completely broke. Then something unexpected happened. An elderly woman in the front row stood up in her 70s. She looked fragile but determined. Dean, honey, she called out clearly. I also lost my son in Vietnam. He was 20 years old. His name was Tommy.
It’s been 40 years, but it’s still the same pain, but I didn’t stop singing. I still sing in the church choir. Your son would want you to sing. Sing for him. Dean looked at her. Tears in his eyes. Ma’am, I I don’t think I can. You can. The woman insisted. Sing for Dean Paul. Let him hear you one more time.
He’s listening from heaven. I’m sure of it. Other audience members also started standing up. Sing for your son, Dean. He’s listening. Make him proud. Do it for Dean Paul. Dean was overwhelmed. This love, this support. He wasn’t expecting it. Okay. Dean whispered into the microphone. One more song for Dean Paul. If you’re listening, son.
Dean chose my way. Frank Sinatra’s famous song, but it was also in Dean’s repertoire. But this time it was different. This time it was a personal message. And now the end is near. And so I faced the final curtain. Dean sang. But this wasn’t a performant. This was a prayer. This was goodbye, my friend. I’ll say it clear.
I’ll state my case of which I’m certain. Dean’s voice was the strongest it had been since the show started. I’ve lived a life that’s full. I traveled each and every highway. The audience was completely silent. This was a sacred moment. And more, much more than this. I did it my way. At the end of the song, Dean’s tears were flowing freely, but this time it was cathartic.
Thank you, Dean whispered. That was for my boy Dean Paul Martin. Wherever you are, son. Standing ovation. 1,200 people on their feet. Crying and applauding simultaneously. The most emotional moment in many of their lives. But Dean wasn’t finished yet. Ladies and gentlemen, Dean said, his voice stronger now. Tonight didn’t go as I planned.
I promised you an entertaining evening. Instead, I shared my pain with you. Silence. But maybe this was more important. You listened to me, supported me. You reminded me that songs are made for connection, not perfection. More applause. My son Dean Paul loved music. He loved life. He would want me to continue singing.
But tonight, tonight, I can’t give you the show you deserve. Dean paused. This is This is my last time on stage. I can’t do this anymore without him. Music was our thing. Shocked silence was Dean Martin announcing retirement. But I want to leave you with this. Love your children. Tell them every day. Don’t wait. I waited. I said I’ll tell him tomorrow.
I’ll spend more time tomorrow. Tomorrow never came. Dean picked up the microphone one final time. One last song. The song that made me who I am today. But this time, this time for Dean Paul. Dean started. Everybody loves somebody again. But this time he finished it slowly, emotionally like a lullaby for his lost son.
Everybody loves somebody sometime. Everybody finds somebody someday. Dean’s voice was haunting, beautiful, but heartbreaking. And my someday was my son. Dean Paul Martin. I love you boy. Wait for me in heaven. Final note. Complete silence. Then the longest standing ovation in Vegas history. 1,200 people crying. applauding, embracing each other.
15 minutes. Dean stood there. Tears streaming down his face, accepting love from strangers who became family that night. Thank you. Dean finally said, “Tonight, you reminded me that being human is strength, not weakness. Good night and goodbye.” Dean walked off stage for the last time in his life. Career over.
After that night, Dean Martin never went on stage again. Years later, audience members would say, “That night we saw a legend’s most human moment. Dean Martin showed us that greatness is not perfection, but honesty.” Dean Martin lived quietly until he passed away. On Christmas Day, heart failure, his last words, “I’m coming Dean Paul.
” On March 20, 1987, Dean Martin ended his career. But that night also showed that real art comes from the heart, not technique. And sometimes a broken heart creates the most beautiful
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