Posted in

Dean Martin’s 15-Year Christmas Secret Finally Exposed—The Truth Is Heartbreaking

Dean, did you bring presents? Dean laughs. Presents? Of course I brought presents. He opens the bag, takes out presents. Toys, books, chocolates, but not expensive presents. Special presents for each child. names written on them because everything is special for each child. Airplane model for Tommy, doll for Sarah, baseball glove for Michael.

"
"

Every child gets a present, personal present. Because Dean knows each one knows everyone. Last year you told me, Tommy, you want to be a pilot. Sarah, you want to be a teacher. Michael, you want to play baseball. I remembered. The children are amazed because Dean remembers every detail, every word. Tommy cries. You You remembered.

Dean puts his hand on Tommy’s hand. I always remember, son. A nurse stands in the corner crying silently because she sees this scene every year. But every year tears still flow from her eyes the same way. Dean takes out his guitar from the bag. An old guitar worn, but Dean’s favorite. Now, would you like me to sing you a song? The children scream. Yes. Yes.

Dean starts playing. Silent night, slow, soft, beautiful. Everyone in the room goes quiet. Only Dean’s voice. And only the guitar sounds make the night beautiful. And in that moment, they’re not sick children, just children. Christmas Eve, he sees them happy. The song ends. Dean sings another song. White Christmas. Then Jingle Bells.

An hour passes. Dean singing, telling stories, children laughing. But then Tommy asks, “Dean, what’s your family doing now?” Dean hesitates. “They’re at home celebrating Christmas.” Sarah asks, “So why are you here? You should be with your family.” Dean smiles, but a sad smile. “Because you’re my family, too, and nobody should be alone at Christmas.” A child starts crying.

Michael, 9 years old. I want to be with my family, but they they didn’t come. Dean goes to Michael’s bed, sits, puts his arm around his shoulder. I know, son. Sometimes families are scared. Hospitals are scary. Illness is scary. But this isn’t your fault. Understand? Michael nods. But I’m alone. No. Dean says, “You’re not alone. I’m here.

The nurses are here. And these kids are here. We’re your family.” Michael hugs Dean. Tight hug crying. Dean cries too silently because he knows Michael will probably die in a month. It’s 11:30. Dean stands up. I have to go, kids. No, stay. Please don’t go. Dean shakes his head. I have children at home, too. They’re waiting for me, too.

But will you come back next year? Dean hesitates because he knows half these children won’t be here next year, but he still says, “I promise I’ll come back next year.” Dean hugs everyone individually. Every child, every nurse, then he leaves, walks down the corridor, gets in the elevator, gets in his car, sits, doesn’t start the engine, just sits and cries.

Cries for 10 minutes because the same thing happens every year. He comes, sees the children, makes them happy. Then he leaves and knows he won’t see them again. He arrives home midnight. The children are asleep. Jean is waiting. Where were you? Dean doesn’t answer, just hugs. Jean, tight hug. I love you, he says. And I love the children. I’m so lucky.

Jean doesn’t know what happened, but she feels it. Something changed. I love you too, Dean. This story started in 1965 and it continued. Dean went again. Same hospital, same floor, new children. Some familiar, most new. Because last year’s children, most died. Dean went again. Jean asked, “Dean, please tell me where are you going?” Dean didn’t answer.

Somewhere important. That’s enough. Dean’s son, Dean Paul, asks, “Dad, can I come, too?” Dean shakes his head. No son, this is something I have to do. Every year without missing, every Christmas Eve, the nurses at the hospital know, the doctors know, but nobody talks because Dean said, “Please don’t tell the press.

Please don’t tell anyone. This isn’t for me. This is for the children.” A nurse asks Dean. Nurse Margaret, 50 years old, 20 years at this hospital. Mr. Martin, why do you do this? Every year, nobody knows. Nobody applauds. Dean smiles. That’s why I do it. If they knew, I’d be doing it for the wrong reason.

But the children, the children are dying. They won’t come back next year. Doesn’t it make you sad? Dean bows his head. I’m sad every day, but that doesn’t stop me from helping them. These children deserve Christmas. They deserve happiness. And if I can make them happy for an hour, that’s enough. Margaret cries. You’re a good man, Mr.

Martin. Dean shakes his head. No, I’m just a lucky man. I have healthy children. I have a warm home. These children have none of that. The least I can do is be here. Dean’s mother dies. Angela Martin, 82 years old. The funeral is December 23rd. Dean is devastated, crying, can’t speak. Jean says, “Dean, don’t go this year.

You’re too tired, too sad.” Dean shakes his head. No, I have to go. Mom would want me to. December 24th, 1975. Dean goes to the hospital. But this year is different because he’s crying. Still crying. The children see. Dean, what happened? Dean tells them, “My mother died yesterday.” The children go quiet. They’re sad for Dean.

But then a child says, “Emily, 7 years old.” Dean, I’m sorry, but you know what? Your mom is in heaven now, and she’s happy there. Dean looks at Emily and smiles. You’re right, sweetheart. You’re right. And that night, Dean sits with the children, talks about his mother, tells stories, and the children listen, and Dean heals a little because sometimes those who hurt most heal by helping others.

Dean’s still going every year. But 1980, something happens. Something terrible. March 21st, 1987. Dean’s son, Dean Paul Martin, dies in a plane crash. 35 years old, pilot, fighter jet, crashes into a mountain, dies instantly. Dean collapses, completely collapses, not talking, not eating, not sleeping, just sitting and staring into space.

December 24th, 1987, Christmas Eve. Jean says, “Dean, are you going to the hospital?” Dean shakes his head. “No, I can’t. I lost my son. How can I go?” Jean understands. “Okay, stay here.” Dean stays home. But he’s not happy. Not peaceful because for the first time, the first time in 15 years, he’s not going to the hospital on Christmas Eve.

At the hospital, the children wait. Is Dean coming? Nurse Margaret shakes her head. I don’t know, sweethearts. I don’t know. Dean doesn’t come. The children are sad, but they understand because they know suffering, too. Dean doesn’t go again. Too sad. Too broken. Doesn’t go. Doesn’t go. The tradition ends.

Read More