71 years old, 8 months in prison for a crime he did not commit, a DNA exoneration signed by a federal judge on April 7th, 2019, and a grandson he had never met. Samuel Ezekiel Budro walked onto the family feud stage on the morning of November 20th, 2026, holding a small brown paper gift bag in his left hand, wearing a gray wool suit.
his son Terrell had bought him at a men’s store in Baton Rouge two days earlier and standing with the careful upright posture of a man who had not been allowed to stand upright in a courtroom, a prison yard, or on his own front porch for most of the past 43 years. His grandson, Eli, was 7 weeks old.
Eli had been born on October 2nd, 2026 at Woman’s Hospital in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. Samuel had not been there for the birth. He had not held Eli yet. He had not met him. He had not been in the same room with him. He had been waiting for 7 weeks for the right moment to drive to his son Terrell’s apartment on Government Street, knock on the door, and ask if he could hold his grandson.
He had not been able to make himself do it. He had been afraid. And when Terrell Budro, 38 years old, a middle school math teacher, the son Samuel had not seen outside of visitation booths from the time Terrell was 8 years old to the time Terrell was 43, had called his father on the morning of October 28th, 2026, and said, “Daddy, we got selected for family feud.
Me and Kesha and Mama and Aunt Pearl and you. The taping’s November 20th in Atlanta. Will you come? Samuel Budro had said yes before he thought about it because he had promised himself on the day he walked out of the federal courthouse in Baton Rouge in April of 2019 that he would never say no to his son about anything ever again.
What he had not known when he said yes to his son, what nobody in the Budro family knew when they walked into the Atlanta studio that morning was that Terrell Budro’s wife Kesha had quietly arranged with the producers for a 7-week old baby boy to be brought into the studio 45 minutes before the taping and that for the first time in his life, Samuel Budro was about to hold his grandson on the stage.
stage of a national television show. What Steve Harvey was about to do when he realized what he was watching would stop the taping for 12 minutes. It was a Friday morning, the 361st taping of the season inside the Family Feud studio in Atlanta. The Budro family from Baton Rouge, Louisiana stood on the right side of the stage.
Five people in matching silver gray shirts that read Budro 5 in small black letters over the heart. Samuel stood at the front of his team, 71 years old, a retired welder who had served 35 years of a life sentence at Louisiana State Penitentiary at Angola for the 1984 rape and murder of a white woman named Carol Anne Whitam in East Feliciana Parish.
A conviction that had been overturned on April 7th, 2019 when DNA evidence tested by the Innocence Project of New Orleans had identified the actual perpetrator, a man named Raymond Dwight Pifford, who had died in a car accident in 2008. Behind Samuel stood his son Terrell, 38, a middle school math teacher in East Baton Rouge Parish.
his daughter-in-law, Kesha, 35, a labor and delivery nurse at Woman’s Hospital, who had been on maternity leave for 7 weeks. His wife, Verita, Samuel’s wife of 47 years, the woman who had visited him at Angola, once every 2 weeks from 1984 to 2019, a 187 mile round trip she had made more than 900 times.
68, a retired elementary school cafeteria worker, and Samuel’s sister, Pearl, 73, a retired butician. On the other side of the stage stood the Casperian family from Glendale, California. Five warm, loud siblings who had flown in the day before. Samuel had played the main game carefully, quietly, with the kind of measured smile of a man who had spent 35 years learning that smiling too widely in the wrong place at the wrong time could cost him things he could not afford to lose.
He had made Steve Harvey laugh once during the third round with a oneliner about fishing that had caused the audience to lean forward. His team had lost the main game by 29 points. Terrell had been nominated to play fast money first. Samuel had stepped back into the team line. His left hand had drifted, as it had been drifting all morning, to the brown paper gift bag he had not put down since the taping began.
The gift bag held a small wooden fishing lure Samuel had handcarved inside his cell at Angola in the summer of 2011. He had carved it for a grandchild he had not yet had. He had carried it home from prison in 2019 in a clear plastic bag with his other personal effects. He had kept it in the top drawer of his own dresser for 7 years waiting.
But the real story hadn’t even started yet. To understand why a 71-year-old man had walked onto the Family Feud stage that morning holding a handcarved fishing lure in a brown paper bag. You have to go back to the early morning of August 14th, 1984. Samuel Ezekiel Budro was 29 years old. He was a welder at a shipyard in Port Allen, Louisiana.
He was married to Verita. He had an 8-year-old son named Terrell. He had been driving home from a late shift at the shipyard on a two-lane road through East Feliciana Parish at 1:47 a.m. when his 1978 Ford F-150 had blown a radiator hose. He had pulled over to the shoulder. He had walked 3/4 of a mile to the nearest pay phone, a phone outside a convenience store on Highway 19, and he had called Verita to come pick him up.
While he was standing at that pay phone at 2:14 a.m., a white sheriff’s deputy in East Feliciana Parish had pulled into the convenience store parking lot. The deputy had been responding to a call about a woman found deceased in a field 7 mi away. Carol Anne Witam, 26 years old, a waitress who had been raped and beaten to death sometime between midnight and 1:30 a.m.
The deputy had seen a black man standing alone at a pay phone on a rural highway at 2:14 in the morning. He had approached Samuel. He had asked him what he was doing there. Samuel had told him. The deputy had asked for his identification. Samuel had given it. The deputy had asked him to sit on the curb while he called it in. Samuel had sat.
He had sat on that curb for 4 hours and 17 minutes. By sunrise, Samuel Budro had been arrested. By the following afternoon, he had been charged. By January of 1985, he had been convicted by an all-white jury in East Feliciana Parish on the basis of three pieces of evidence. His presence at a pay phone 7 miles from the crime scene, his inability to produce a witness who could confirm he had been driving home from work at the time of the murder.
his supervisor at the shipyard had gone fishing that weekend and could not be reached until the following Tuesday, by which point the prosecutor had already argued to the grand jury that Samuel’s alibi was fabricated and the testimony of a state P corology expert who had claimed based on 1985 era blood typing technology that Seaman recovered from the victim was consistent with Samuel’s blood type.
He had been sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole on February 11th, 1985. He had entered Louisiana State Penitentiary at Angola on February 19th, 1985. Terrell Budro had been 8 years old. For the next 35 years, Samuel Budro lived inside the walls of Angola. Bernita visited him once every two weeks. She drove the 187 milei round trip from Baton Rouge through the small town of St.
Francisville up the long narrow road to the prison gate through the checkpoint through the metal detector through the patown into the visitation room where she sat across a table from her husband for 90 minutes. She did this on the first and third Saturday of every month for 35 years. She missed four visits. Two because of the birth of her nephew in 1991 when her sister had needed her in Shreveport.
One because of Hurricane Gustav in 2008 and one in 2013 when she herself had been hospitalized with pneumonia. Four missed visits in 35 years. 96 visits completed, more than 170,000 m on the various cars she had owned over those three and a half decades. Terrell had been allowed to visit beginning at age 11 under a prison policy that required a parent or guardian to accompany minors.
He had visited twice a month from the age of 11 to the age of 18 and then once a month after he left for college and then twice a month again after he became a teacher. In 35 years Samuel had hugged his son. Really hugged him arms all the way around 17 times. Every one of those hugs had lasted approximately 4 seconds before the corrections officer on duty had cleared his throat.
For 23 of those 35 years, Samuel had maintained his innocence quietly. He had not been a difficult prisoner. He had worked in the welding shop. He had earned a GED in 1989. He had taken correspondence courses in theology. He had read the Bible from cover to cover 11 times. He had refused every time a parole hearing came around to admit guilt in exchange for consideration of release, which was the standard pathway to parole in Louisiana at the time.
Because to admit guilt for something he had not done would have been, in his own words to Vernita during a 1997 visit, a second killing of the man I am. In 2008, the Innocence Project of New Orleans, a nonprofit legal organization that had been working since the late 1990s to identify and retest biological evidence in wrongful conviction cases, had accepted Samuel’s case for review.
The evidence in question had been a single seaman stain recovered from Carol Anne Witam’s body in 1984 and stored along with thousands of other pieces of biological evidence from thousands of Louisiana cases in a temperature controlled evidence locker in Baton Rouge. It had taken the Innocence Project nine years to navigate the legal process required to have that stain retested using modern DNA analysis.
The retest had been completed on February 22nd, 2018. The DNA had not matched Samuel Budau. It had matched with 99.9999% certainty a man named Raymond Dwight Pedford, a white man from Clinton, Louisiana, who had died in a single car accident on Highway 61 on November 8th, 2008, and whose DNA profile had been entered into the FBI’s combined DNA index system in 2004 following a 2003 assault conviction.
Raymond Dwight Pedford had been 22 years old on the night Carol Anne Witam was killed. He had worked at a lumberyard 3 mi from the field where her body had been found. He had passed through East Feliciana Parish dozens of times a week in the summer of 1984. Samuel Ezekiel Budro had been exonerated on April 7th, 2019 in a ceremony presided over by a federal judge at the United States District Court for the Middle District of Louisiana in Baton Rouge.
Bernita had sat in the front row. Terrell had sat next to her. Terrell had been 42 years old. He had not seen his father outside of a visitation booth since he was 8. When the judge had ordered Samuel’s release, and when Samuel had walked across the courtroom to Verita, and when Verita had stood up, and when the two of them had embraced in open air for the first time in 35 years, not across a table, not under the eye of a corrections officer, not with a 3inut time limit before an officer cleared his throat, Bernita Budro had not let go of
her husband for 11 minutes. The baiffs had not cleared the courtroom. The judge had not adjourned. Everyone had waited. Louisiana had, after an additional 17 months of litigation, paid Samuel Budro $2.45 million in restitution under the state’s wrongful conviction compensation statute.
The money had arrived in September of 2020. Samuel had used it to pay off the second mortgage Verita had taken on the house in Baton Rouge in 2003 to cover Terrell’s college tuition. He had used it to pay off Terrell’s remaining student loans. He had used it to buy Vernita a 2019 Toyota Camry to replace the 2003 Toyota Corolla she had driven to Angola 218 times.
He had set aside a trust for any grandchildren he might someday have. He had paid cash for a two-bedroom house 4 miles from his son’s apartment on Government Street. He had lived quietly. He had not given interviews. He had not written a book. He had not joined a speaking circuit. He had gone fishing two days a week at the Mississippi River Levy at Scots Bluff.
He had gone to church every Sunday at Mount Pilgrim Baptist on Plank Road. He had eaten dinner with his wife every night. He had waited for his son to have children. Eli Samuel Budro had been born at 3:44 p.m. on October 2nd, 2026. Samuel had been sitting in the waiting room at Woman’s Hospital when his daughter-in-law Kesha had come out, still in her hospital gown, carrying a small wrapped bundle.
She had walked past Verita. She had walked past Pearl. She had walked to Samuel. She had knelt down in front of the chair where he was sitting. She had looked up at him. She had said, “Daddy, you want to hold him?” Samuel Budro had said no. He had said no because he had been afraid. He had been afraid that his hands, which had spent 35 years in a prison shop, which were covered in welder scars and calluses, which had been cuffed and uncuffed tens of thousands of times, were not the hands a newborn was supposed to be placed into. He had been afraid that if
Kesha put the baby in his arms, he would cry in a way he had not cried since 1985, and he would not be able to stop. And he did not want the first thing his grandson remembered about him to be a broken old man sobbing over him. He had been afraid, most of all, that he did not yet know how to be a grandfather.
He had been a father for 8 years before Angola. He had been a husband at a distance for 35 years. He had been a free man for seven, but he had never been a grandfather. He did not know how. He had needed time to figure it out. He had told Kesha gently, “Not yet, baby. Let me figure out how to be worthy of him first. I’ll know when it’s time.
” Kesha Budro had taken her father-in-law’s hand. She had said, “Daddy Samuel, you were born worthy, but I’m going to let you take the time you need.” For 7 weeks, Samuel had not held his grandson. He had visited Terl and Kesha’s apartment six times. He had sat on their couch. He had looked at Eli sleeping in the bassinet.
He had touched Eli’s small hand with one finger. He had not picked him up. He had told Verita on the drive home from the third visit. Nita, I’ll know when it’s time. Verita had said, “I know you will, baby. You always do.” Kesha Budro had filled out the family feud application on October 14th, 2026, 12 days after Eli was born.
She had filled it out in the kitchen of her apartment while Eli slept. She had told Terrell what she was doing. She had not told Samuel. She had not told Verita. She had written in the personal statement box a summarized version of Samuel’s story. The 1984 arrest, the 35 years at Angola, the 2019 exoneration, the 7 years since, and one additional sentence that she had asked the producers in a follow-up email 2 weeks later to please keep confidential from her father-in-law.
The sentence had read, “My father-in-law has not yet held his grandson. He is waiting to feel ready. I believe he needs to hold his grandson in a place where he is seen, not hidden.” I do not know if that place exists, but if it does, I think it might be a stage. Denise Carter had read the application on October 25th.
She had walked into Steve Harvey’s dressing room 3 days later. She had read Samuel Budau<unk’s file to Steve in full. When she had reached the sentence Kesha had written about the stage, Steve had set his coffee down. He had not spoken for a long moment. Then he had said, “Denise, get the baby to the studio.
Don’t tell Samuel. Don’t tell Verita, but tell Kesha we heard her. Tell her we will try.” A car seat had been cleared through studio security at 7:02 a.m. on the morning of November 20th, 2026. Kesha Budro had brought Eli into the Atlanta studio at 7:47 a.m. accompanied by Vereda’s sister-in-law, Dorothy Budro, who had flown in from Baton Rouge the night before to provide infant care during the taping, and by two lactation consultants.
the producers had arranged at Kesha’s request. Eli had been kept in a small, quiet room next to Denise Carter’s office. Samuel Budro, arriving with the rest of the family at 8:15 a.m., had been told that Kesha’s aunt Dorothy had stayed behind in Baton Rouge and that Eli was with her. He had accepted this without question. He had not expected his 7-week old grandson to be on a family feud taping.
The main game was played. The family lost. Terrell was nominated for fast money first. He played the round. He scored 172 points. He hugged his father. He stepped back into the team line. Samuel was called to the podium. He set the brown paper gift bag down carefully on the shelf under the podium. He gripped the edge of the wood with both hands.
He looked up at Steve Harvey. Steve Harvey knew what was about to happen. Denise Carter was standing in the wings with Dorothy Budro, who was holding Eli in a small blue blanket. Dorothy was 6 feet behind the green room door stage right. Mr. Samuel, Steve said warmly. You ready, sir? I’m ready, Mr. Harvey.
Steve asked the five questions. Samuel answered them in his careful, measured way. His voice was steady. His hands stayed on the podium. When the buzzer sounded at the end of his 25 seconds, the scoreboard revealed the answers. The board climbed to 218. The combined total flashed. 390 points, 10 short of 400, 10 points short of $20,000.
The studio fell completely silent. Samuel Budro looked at the scoreboard. He turned to his son. He smiled a small, tired, genuine smile. He said quietly, “Terell, son, I’m sorry.” Terrell walked up to the podium. He put his hand on his father’s shoulder. Daddy, you got nothing to be sorry for. Nothing.
Steve Harvey walked across the stage. He stopped in front of Samuel. He did not speak at first. Then he said, “Mr. Samuel, I want to ask you one thing, sir, if that is all right.” “Yes, Mr. Harvey. What’s in the bag, sir? I’ve been watching you hold it all morning. Samuel Budro looked down at the brown paper bag on the shelf under the podium.
He reached for it. He lifted it out. He opened it. He took out a small wooden fishing lure. It was carved from a piece of cyprress. It was painted with small, careful brush strokes in yellow and red. It had a tiny hook tied to it with fishing line. Samuel held it up for Steve Harvey to see. Mr.
Harvey, I carved this in my cell at Angola in the summer of 2011. I was 56 years old. I carved it because I was trying to learn how to be patient. I was trying to learn how to believe that my grandson might exist someday. I did not have any grandchildren then. My son was 33. He was not married. But I carved this lure anyway.
I carved it for a grandchild I did not have. I told myself that if I kept believing he was coming, I could keep surviving until he did. I carried it home from prison 7 years ago. I put it in my dresser drawer. And 12 days ago, Mr. Harvey, my grandson, was born. His name is Eli Samuel Budro. He is 7 weeks old today.
I have not held him yet, sir. I have been waiting. I was going to give him this lure when I felt when I was ready to be his grandfather. I brought it with me to Atlanta because I thought I thought maybe on the way home I would be ready. I thought maybe I would drive straight to my son’s apartment from the airport and I would I would knock on the door and I would hold him for the first time and I would give him this lure.
The studio fell completely silent. Vernita Budro standing behind her husband in the team line had pressed her hand over her mouth. Terrell was looking at the floor. Kesha was looking at the green room door stage right. Steve Harvey looked at Samuel. He did not speak for a long moment. Then he said very quietly, “Mr. Samuel, sir, I need to tell you something.
Your daughter-in-law, Kesha, your son Terrell’s wife, wrote us a letter when she filled out the application. She told us about Eli. She told us you had not held him yet. She asked us if we could if it was possible to help you hold your grandson for the first time in a place where you could be seen, sir. Not hidden. She thought you needed that, sir.
She didn’t tell your son. She didn’t tell your wife. She didn’t tell you, but we heard her. Mr. Samuel, we heard her. Samuel Budro did not move. He was holding the fishing lure in both hands. Your grandson Eli is in this building right now, Mr. Samuel. He is 6 ft behind a door, stage right. His great aunt Dorothy is holding him.
He has been here for 5 hours, sir. He has been sleeping most of the morning. His mama breastfed him 40 minutes ago in a quiet room next to my producers’s office. He is here, sir. He is wearing a small blue outfit. He does not know what a stage is. He does not know what a television show is.
He just knows his granddaddy is somewhere nearby. Samuel Budro<unk’s knees gave out. Terrell caught him under one arm. Pearl stepped forward and caught him under the other. Bernita walked to her husband and put her hand on his chest. Samuel was not crying. He was breathing carefully. His eyes were closed. Steve Harvey did not speak. He waited.
After almost a full minute, Samuel opened his eyes. Mr. Harvey, sir, I I do not know how to do this on a stage with cameras. I do not know how. Mr. Samuel, you do not have to do it on the stage. We can walk you to a quiet room. We can take the cameras off. We can give you and Vernita and Terrell and Kesha a private room with your grandson. You say the words, sir.
You tell me what you need. Samuel Budro looked at his wife. Verita looked at him. She did not speak. She just nodded. Samuel looked at his son. Terrell did not speak. He just nodded. Samuel looked at his daughter-in-law, Kesha, who had walked up from the team line. Kesha said very quietly, “Daddy Samuel, whatever you need. The baby doesn’t know.
It doesn’t matter to him. Whatever you need.” Samuel Budro closed his eyes again. He stood there for a long time. Then he opened them. He looked at Steve Harvey. Mr. Harvey, I think I think I would like to hold him out here, sir, on the stage with the cameras. Not because I want anybody to watch, but because my wife drove 187 miles to see me once every 2 weeks for 35 years.
And my son grew up visiting me in a visitation booth. and the whole world saw my name for 35 years printed next to a crime I did not commit. And if Eli is going to know one thing about his granddaddy, Mr. Harvey, I would like the first thing he knows to be that the first time his granddaddy held him, it was out in the open, in the light, not behind a door, not hidden, not ashamed.
I would like that, sir. Steve Harvey did not speak. He simply nodded. He turned to the green room door stage right. Dorothy Budro holding 7-week old Eli wrapped in a small blue blanket walked through the door. The studio fell completely silent. Dorothy walked across the stage slowly, carefully, the way a 70-year-old woman carries a newborn across any distance.
Eli was awake. He was quiet. He was looking up at the studio lights with the mild, dark-keyed curiosity of a 7-week old baby who did not yet understand anything about what he was seeing. Dorothy walked to Samuel. She stopped in front of him. Sammy, she said quietly, “You ready?” Samuel Budro looked at his great aunt, who had known him since he was a boy in Plaean, who had visited him at Angola 42 times over 35 years.
who had held both of his children when they were born, who had carried this baby in her arms for the last 5 hours without telling anybody. “Dorothy,” he said, “I’m ready.” Dorothy Budro transferred her great grandnephew into her nephew’s arms. Samuel Ezekiel Budro, 71 years old, 35 years at Angola, 7 years a free man, held his grandson for the first time in his life.
His hands, the welder’s hands, the carver’s hands, the hands that had been cuffed so many times the skin on his wrists was permanently slightly darker than the rest of his arms, cradled a 7-week old head. Eli’s left hand came free of the blanket. It found Samuel’s thumb. It closed around it.
Sevenw week old fingers wrapped around a 71-year-old thumb and held on. Samuel Budro did not cry at first. He just looked. He looked at his grandson’s face for a very long time without moving. And then he bent his own face down and he pressed his forehead very gently against his grandson’s forehead and he said in a voice barely above a whisper, “Eli, I am your granddaddy. I am here.
I am not going anywhere.” Verita Budro standing beside her husband was holding on to his arm. Terrell was standing behind his father with his hand on Samuel’s shoulder blade. Kesha had walked around to the front. She was crying but quietly because she did not want to disturb the baby. Steve Harvey, standing 12 ft away, did not speak.
He did not move. His hand had come up to cover his mouth. He had been about to say something. something to the camera, something to the audience, some transition line, and the words had simply stopped. He stood there for almost a full minute. Steve Harvey did not speak. He finally lowered his hand. He said very quietly to nobody in particular, “Folks, we are going to take a break here. I need a minute.
” He walked off the stage. He walked past the producers. He walked into the wings. He did not come back for 12 minutes. Denise Carter later told a reporter off the record that she had found Steve Harvey sitting on a metal folding chair in the hallway behind the set. He had been holding his own father’s photograph in his hand, a small walletsized black and white photograph he had been carrying in his inside jacket pocket for 30 years.
Steve’s father, Jesse Harvey, had died in 2000. Steve had been on the road doing standup the night his father passed. He had not been there. He had not held his father’s hand at the end. He had not said goodbye. Denise Carter had sat down next to Steve Harvey in the hallway. She had not spoken. After several minutes, Steve had said very quietly, “Denise, I have held a lot of things together on that stage.
I don’t know if I can hold this one.” Denise had said, “Steve, you don’t have to hold it. You have to witness it. That’s all.” Steve Harvey had nodded. He had put the photograph of his father back in his jacket pocket. He had walked back onto the stage. When he returned, Samuel Budro was sitting on a stool a stage hand had quietly brought out.
He was still holding Eli. Vernita was sitting on a second stool next to him. Terrell was kneeling in front of them. Kesha was standing behind her husband with her hand on his back. Pearl was standing beside Vernita. The Casparian family across the stage were all crying. The boom operator was crying. The director in the control room had come out of the booth.
He was standing in the wings in his shirt sleeves. Steve Harvey walked to the Budau family. He stopped three feet in front of them. He did not kneel. He did not speak. He just stood there for a moment looking. Then he said quietly, “Mr. Samuel, Mrs. Budro, may I say a few words, sir?” Samuel Budro nodded. He did not look up from his grandson’s face.
Steve Harvey turned to camera 2. The studio was still silent. Everybody watching this right now, I want you to hear me. The man sitting on that stool is named Samuel Ezekiel Budro. He is 71 years old. He spent 35 years in Louisiana State Penitentiary at Angola for a crime he did not commit. He was exonerated by DNA evidence in April of 2019.
His wife, Verita, drove 187 miles to visit him once every 2 weeks for 35 years. She missed four visits. Four in three and a half decades. His son Terrell grew up visiting his daddy in a visitation booth. His daughter-in-law Kesha had a baby 7 weeks ago. And Mr. Samuel, who carved a wooden fishing lure for a grandchild he did not have yet in the summer of 2011 inside a cell at Angola, just held that grandchild for the first time at the age of 71 on the stage of a game show.
I am not going to pretend to be able to tell y’all what that is. I do not have words for what that is. I just wanted you to see it. He paused. He did not look at the camera. He looked at Samuel. Mr. Samuel, I want to tell you a few things, and I want you to keep holding your grandbaby while I tell you.
You do not need to say anything back. You just need to keep holding him. Samuel nodded, still looking down. Your grandson Eli’s college is paid for through graduate school. Any school he gets into, every dollar, he is seven weeks old. He has $40,000 a year, every year, waiting for him from the age of 18 on. Second, you bought a two-bedroom house 4 miles from your son’s apartment when your restitution came in. I know that.
I also know you have been driving the same 2013 Ford pickup since 2019. You needed a new truck for fishing. I had one delivered to your driveway in Baton Rouge yesterday afternoon. Your neighbor, Mr. Williams, was the only other person who knew. It is sitting there right now. Third, your wife, Vernita, drove 187 mi, 96 times to see you. Mrs.
Budro, ma’am, with your permission, I have arranged for you and Mr. Samuel to take a week anywhere in the world on me. Wherever you want to go, whenever you want to go. First class travel, any hotel, any dates. You two earned a honeymoon, ma’am. 35 years late. Vernita Budro lowered her head. She began to cry for the first time in the taping.
And I am announcing live on this stage a new foundation. It is going to be called the long visit foundation in honor of Vernita Budro and every spouse and every parent and every child and every sibling who has made a long drive, a long flight, a long bus ride, a long walk for a long time to visit somebody locked up. The foundation’s mission is one thing, to cover the transportation and lodging costs for family members of incarcerated people who are maintaining ongoing visitation relationships.
I am seeding it tonight with $5 million of my own money. We are going to run it in partnership with the Innocence Project of New Orleans, the Innocence Project National Organization, and Prison Fellowship. Families will be able to apply quarterly. Long drives are about to get a lot more possible for a lot of people.
The audience stood up quietly, not applauding. But Steve wasn’t done. He walked forward. He stopped in front of Samuel. He knelt down. He was now eye level with Samuel and Eli. Mr. Samuel, let me tell you something, sir. A long time ago, when I was 27 years old, I was living in my 1976 Ford Tempo in Cleveland, Ohio. I had been in that car almost 3 years.
My son Brandon, my first son, was 5 years old. He was living with his mother in Akran. I had not seen him in 9 months. Not because I did not want to, because I was ashamed of where I was and what I had become. One Saturday morning, I remember the date. It was February 11th, 1985, I drove the Ford Tempo from Cleveland to Akran.
I parked four blocks from my son’s house. I sat in the car for 3 hours. I could not make myself walk up to the door. I was afraid of what my son would see when he looked at me. I was afraid that I would not know how to be worthy of him. I was afraid I would cry in a way that would scare him. I drove back to Cleveland that night without seeing him. Mr.
Samuel, the day you are afraid of being a grandfather, sir, is not the day you are not worthy of being one. It is the day you are most ready to be one. Because a man who is not afraid of holding his grandson for the first time, he is not taking it seriously. You were ready, Mr. Samuel. You have always been ready.
You were ready when you carved that lure in 2011. You were ready when Kesha asked you in that hospital room 7 weeks ago, and you said, “Not yet. You were ready when you walked onto this stage this morning. A man who carries a fishing lure in a brown paper bag for 7 weeks because he is trying to be worthy of a 7-week old baby.
That man has been worthy his whole life, sir. You were you and I was you, sir. 41 years ago, I was you. Samuel Budro looked up finally from his grandson’s face. He looked at Steve Harvey. His eyes were wet. Mr. Harvey, thank you. Thank you, sir. That is That is what I needed to hear.
I have been needing to hear that for a long time. Eli stirred in Samuel’s arms. Samuel looked back down at his grandson. He bent his forehead down again and pressed it very gently to Eli’s. Eli’s small fingers tightened around Samuel’s thumb. Steve Harvey stood up. He walked back to his podium. He did not speak again. He gestured quietly to the director.
The taping ended. The cameras held on the Budau family. Five adults, one baby, one stool, one wooden fishing lure sitting on the shelf under the fast money podium where Samuel had set it down for almost a full minute before the stage lights faded. The clip of Samuel Budro holding his 7-week old grandson for the first time on the Family Feud stage was uploaded to the Family Feud YouTube channel at 11:04 p.m. that night.
By 6:00 a.m. the following morning, it had 43 million views. By the end of the weekend, 198 million. By the end of December, the clip had been viewed 52 million times across every platform combined. The hashtag the first time trended on X for 24 consecutive days. The hashtag the long visit reached 71 million posts.
The Innocence Project of New Orleans reported an unprecedented spike in donations, $3.2 million in the first week after the broadcast, the largest single week fundraising period in the organization’s 26-year history. Three state legislatures, Louisiana, Alabama, and Texas, introduced legislation in the 2027 session to expand wrongful conviction compensation programs.
Two of the three bills passed. 4 months after the taping, Samuel and Verita Budro took their first honeymoon. They flew first class to Maui. They stayed at a small beachfront resort for 6 days. Vernita had never been on an airplane before. She had never seen an ocean before except for the Gulf of Mexico. On the third morning of the trip, she walked into the surf at sunrise in a coral colored swimsuit Pearl had picked out for her at a department store in Baton Rouge the week before the flight.
She stood in the water up to her knees for 20 minutes. Samuel watched her from the beach. He took one photograph. He has the photograph framed on his nightstand. 6 months after the taping, the Long Visit Foundation had covered the transportation and lodging costs of 2,140 family visits to incarcerated loved ones across 37 states.
By year 1, that number had crossed 7,800. By year two, the foundation had expanded to cover dedicated visitation support workers at 23 state prison systems. In a 60 Minutes interview 3 months after the broadcast, Steve Harvey was asked what he had been thinking when he walked off the stage during the taping for 12 minutes.
Steve was quiet for a long time. Then he said, “I was thinking about my daddy. I was thinking about the times I didn’t make it home in time. I was thinking about my son Brandon and the Saturday morning I sat in a car four blocks from his house and couldn’t make myself walk up. I was thinking about all the first times we don’t get back.
And I was realizing standing at that podium watching Samuel Budro hold his grandson that he was getting something most of us don’t get. He was getting a first time he had been waiting for for 71 years. and I realized I needed to stop being the host for a minute and be a witness. The stage didn’t need me right then.
It needed me gone. 2 years after the broadcast, on a warm Sunday afternoon in late May, Samuel Ezekiel Budro was fishing at the Mississippi River Levy at Scots Bluff in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. He was using the wooden lure he had carved in his cell at Angola in 2011. The yellow and red lure he had given to his grandson on the evening of November 20th, 2026, the night he came home from Atlanta.
Eli Samuel Budro was 2 years old. He was sitting on his granddaddy’s lap in a small folding camp chair. Samuel had his hand over Eli’s small hand on the fishing rod. Vernita was sitting in a chair next to them. Terrell and Kesha were packing up the grill. A light breeze was coming off the river. Eli tugged on the rod.
A small bluegill had taken the lure. “Granddaddy,” Eli said. “Granddaddy, look.” Samuel Budro smiled. He helped his grandson reel in the fish. The bluegill flopped against the concrete of the levy. Samuel unhooked it. He held it up for Eli to see. Then he knelt down and released it gently back into the Mississippi. Eli watched the fish swim away.
Granddaddy, Eli said. Why did we let it go? Samuel Budro looked at his 2-year-old grandson. He looked at the river. He looked at the lure in his hand. the lure he had carved in 2011 in a cell for a grandchild he did not know yet. “Eli,” he said quietly, “because some things wait a long time to be free. And when they finally are, you don’t hold them.
You let them go on.” 71 years, 35 at Angola, seven in restitution and recovery. 7 weeks of a grandson waiting for a grandfather to be ready. 12 minutes of a game show host sitting in a hallway holding a photograph of his own father. 10,950 days of Verita Budro folding a map to Angola and starting her car at 5:30 in the morning on the first and third Saturday of every month.
187 mi one way, 96 visits, four missed. A wooden fishing lure carved by a man who was not yet a grandfather. A small blue blanket. A pair of 7-week old fingers closing around a 71-year-old thumb. A 71-year-old forehead pressing very gently against a 7-week old forehead. The truth about the first time is that sometimes, sometimes the first time arrives so late that the whole world has to stop and notice.
Not because it is unusual, because it is holy. Because every first time carries in it every moment that made it impossible before. Samuel Budro held his grandson for the first time on a Friday morning in November on a family feud stage in Atlanta. He was 71 years old. He should have held him in a hospital room on October 2nd.
He should have held Terrell in a delivery room on June 18th, 1977. He should have held Vernita’s hand every night for the last 47 years instead of across a visitation table for 35 of them. He should have. He did not. And the world owed him something it could not give him. But what it could give him on a Friday morning in Atlanta, what Kesha Budro asked for in a letter and what Denise Carter read and what Steve Harvey walked off a stage for 12 minutes to honor was the simple fact of seeing.
Seeing a grandfather hold his grandson in the open air in the light with no corrections officer clearing his throat at the 4se secondond mark. There are some first times that arrive on time. There are other first times that arrive 35 years late. But the first times that arrive late, the ones that had to wait, the ones that the world had to be shamed into returning, those are the first times we have to witness in public so that the next one does not have to.
If there is somebody in your life who has been waiting a long time to hold somebody, please call them tonight. Ask them if they are ready. Listen to their answer. Don’t push. And if you are somebody who has been afraid of being ready for something, a role, a reunion, a reconciliation, a first time that is a long time late, please know that the day you are afraid of being ready is usually the day you are.
Leave one word in the comments, the first name of somebody who is waiting to be held by somebody they love. Just one. And if you believe stories like this ought to be told, hit subscribe before you scroll away because there is somebody watching this video right this second with a small handcarved something sitting in a drawer waiting for the right moment to be given.
And the only way any of us ever get to the right moment is if the rest of us remind each other that we have already earned
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